I have been married for a year and 4 months and I am thinking about getting a divorce. Before we got married my husband and I were together for 7 years. I was 17 when I started seeing him and im 25 now. I am from a different background than him and I have lived my life differently - he left school at 16 and trained to be a mechanic and I stayed on and went to uni then did a PhD and I am now studying to be a teacher. Things that I didnt let bother me before we got married really bother me now - his family, lack of ambition in education even the way he thinks and speaks. Im not sure what to do, I feel deep down that it wont work but there is something stopping me from leaving (as I havent left yet). We are VERY different and I know that if I met him today I would not marry him! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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