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It never seems to end. The wife and I are trying to get things worked out, but she can't make a commitment and follow through on what she says she will do. On top of this we have to go to court tomorrow to fight for custody of our two grand-daughters. If we dont do this they will wind up with a 20 year old drug addict, that is not thier mother. Thier parents are seperated.
If we get to take care of them, it means that the girls and my wife will have to live with me because the girls are not allowed back in the wife's house until CPS says if it clean enough.
I know that I have to be there for the girls, but I don't know how it will be living with the wife
and not having the confidence that she will be open and honest.
In addition to getting everything ready for court she calls me and says that the air conditioner went out. One over our major issues was money, she spent what we did not have and kept it a secret. We had agreed that she would have me help her set up a budget and savings plan. Never happened. So Now I am expected to come to the rescue and pay $3000.00 for a new air conditioner for her house. This is in addition to the $1000.00 I already spent fixing the kitchen from a grease fire and putting down new flooring in nthe living room and the $500.00 for new doors that I said I would replace. I have to keep changing the plans I have made for myself.
I don't know how much longer or how high I can keep jumping for her. I did tell her that I am not getting anything in return from her and that she needs to decide if she is going to work at the relationship or not and that I am prepared to go either way, with or without her.
Wish Me luck at court.
If we get to take care of them, it means that the girls and my wife will have to live with me because the girls are not allowed back in the wife's house until CPS says if it clean enough.
I know that I have to be there for the girls, but I don't know how it will be living with the wife
and not having the confidence that she will be open and honest.
In addition to getting everything ready for court she calls me and says that the air conditioner went out. One over our major issues was money, she spent what we did not have and kept it a secret. We had agreed that she would have me help her set up a budget and savings plan. Never happened. So Now I am expected to come to the rescue and pay $3000.00 for a new air conditioner for her house. This is in addition to the $1000.00 I already spent fixing the kitchen from a grease fire and putting down new flooring in nthe living room and the $500.00 for new doors that I said I would replace. I have to keep changing the plans I have made for myself.
I don't know how much longer or how high I can keep jumping for her. I did tell her that I am not getting anything in return from her and that she needs to decide if she is going to work at the relationship or not and that I am prepared to go either way, with or without her.
Wish Me luck at court.
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That's an awful lot for you to be dealing with. Yikes! I wish you all the best.
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Brother, I will say a prayer for you tonight. Best of luck Reg
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