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Okay, so how do not get upset on the day your anniversary was? This is a very difficult day for me and hurts. Would have been 14 years. How does a day that was so wonderful years ago turn into a day of hurting? Sorry, just have a pity party today!
verbra
verbra
My anniversary was recent also. I just cried and tried to get it all out and the next day was much better. Try to do things around the house, its hard. GOOD LUCK!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Mine told me he wanted to seperate a few days before our 30th, he still wanted to go and celebrate the years we had together. It was not bad that night, but the days to follow have been hell, but he thinks the divorce is a good thing for both of us. I still am trying to see that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My anniversary is on Christmas Eve, so I have a built-in something else to focus on and celebrate. But, yes, hard. I guess otherwise I would treat myself to something special with other people that day and just take good care of myself.
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That was a tough day for me as well. Sept 3 would have been 15th. She got her own place a few days before that and I spent that day packing some of her stuff. I managed for most of the day but cried for 2 hours at night. Hang in there today. Tomorrow will be a lot better. You will have weathered the storm.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My anniversary came and went, and I didn't even realize it until a few days later. Guess I'm kind of lucky.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My Anniversary was Thanksgiving-I am Thankful I am no longer with a jerk-I had a really ggod day-the best thasnksgiving I had had in years.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm lucky...my anniversary falls on the birthday of a very special friend I made this year...so I plan to celebrate HER that day and the blessing she is in my life!
I'm sure it will still be very hard though...even harder if this date had no other special meaning for me....
LarryLDN
LarryLDN
On what would have been our 24th, I texted her the standard Vows, she didn't reply that day. LOL

On what would have been our 25th, I was with a CMT getting a 105 minute massage (she just kept going).
deleted_user
deleted_user
my anniversary is tommorow! I dont know how I should feel about it expect the fact the I wasted 7 years (all together) on a liar.
I dont know how to feel about that!
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