My day started out with an email from stbx asking what I wanted to do about filing for divorce and he wanted to have a "nice" divorce without having to go through the courts. Friday I had asked him to not come by the house anymore because I am trying to move on, just like he has (he moved out at the end of October, he came back for a week then left again). He was here a little bit ago, even though I asked him to not come to the house, he wants to discuss finances, we couldn't do that via email, I asked? I was trying to be strong, but I went off on him telling him thanks for my "Christmas present" (the email about a divorce). He acts like I am supposed to be "ok" with this, I'm not. Now, as I was typing this dicussion, he called to tell me that he wasn't worried about filing for a divorce right now, he just needs a little bit of money to live on so I can buy presents for the kids for Christmas (which I only have 1 gift bought). Sorry for the long post, just needed to vent.
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