I recently decided to end my four year marriage. My husband would raise his voice at me and start yelling at me when we would be in a discussion and he felt I was either not agreeing or he did not agree with me. This is how he would get his point across by raising his voice. Than he startd raising his voice at me when I would tell him about thing that needed fixing around the house. He told me I was controlling. I told him many many times I did not like him yelling at me when he felt I was not hearing his opionin. I also became very frustrated over the last few years because he started sitting in front of the TV all night watching news and car shows, home improvement shows. Things were only getting done when I would nag him. My anger is from the increasing yelling he did over the last year. It got to a point where I avoided stating my opinion and would not disagree except when I felt like I wanted an arguement with him because I would become so angry. I have decided I want to end the marriage but I am so angry all the time with him for the constant way he raised his voice and yelled at me. Even thou I did tell him regularly how much this offended me. i also tole him I feel like i was verbally abused in this marriage yet he continues to deny yell at me. When will such anger stop towards him. I sometimes just shake because of how angry I still am and maybe I am angry at myself for letting it go so long. Has anyone had thiese feelings with their ex.
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