Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I know that I want to have a relationship again.I want that bond of closeness.I want someone that I can talk to and share with.
I also find that I really don't feel like putting the effort into it right now.I spent so much time and effort into my last relationship that I don't feel like it now.
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I find that I feel like I'd like to have a friend (you know the one I'm talking about.)Just a friend with benefits.
I know that I have been there done that before and I didn't like it.I actually had almost no interest in the benefits and he always bitched about it.I just don't enjoy the benefits without a connection (a spark).I liked him as a friend but not as a lover.
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I know that I am enjoying getting to know and be myself without someone else.
I find that it's still lonely.
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I just wish these two assholes sitting on my shoulders would shut the F!@# up for once!
I also find that I really don't feel like putting the effort into it right now.I spent so much time and effort into my last relationship that I don't feel like it now.
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I find that I feel like I'd like to have a friend (you know the one I'm talking about.)Just a friend with benefits.
I know that I have been there done that before and I didn't like it.I actually had almost no interest in the benefits and he always bitched about it.I just don't enjoy the benefits without a connection (a spark).I liked him as a friend but not as a lover.
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I know that I am enjoying getting to know and be myself without someone else.
I find that it's still lonely.
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I just wish these two assholes sitting on my shoulders would shut the F!@# up for once!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I need a nap I think.Thanks for your help.
I miss sharing my bed with someone special. I miss sharing the events of my life with someone that cares about me (I thought I had this in my marriage but was mistaken). I miss being able to just sit on the couch holding the hand of someone special and watch a movie or a basketball game. But I am not going to let the "missing" feeling control what I do in my life. I am happy being me right now. I know it won't be this way forever.
We're in the same boat.