Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Well, after leaving me on Sept. 20 and then begging to come home and moving back on Nov. 10, my husband announced last night that he's moving out. Which he already did last night. Looks like the divorce is back on....
Wow, way to really work to save our marriage, after begging for the chance to do so. That was what, whole weeks? GOOD JOB!!
Of course I'm hurt, won't pretend I'm not, but I've not cried about this. I'm pretty much done here. And don't worry, the door is shut, permanently and forever. No more chances. He's shown his true capabilities. Honestly, I think even if he wants to try and make this work, he CAN'T. He doesn't have the skill set and emotional maturity. Quite sad, actually. I've realized this as we've discussed love and relationships over the last few weeks. Emotionally, he's on par with a middle school boy. And I'm tired of carrying the load and waiting for him to grow up. So there we go...
There's more gory details in my journal, if you're interested. In the meantime, any support from DS would be helpful. I'm done with the crying, but I know I still need some hugs and reassurance....
Thank you, all.... I don't know how I would have made it through the last couple of months without you guys, and I know I will need you in the months ahead....
The silver lining -- since the divorce is a for sure go, you will see me in VEGAS, baby! lol!
Wow, way to really work to save our marriage, after begging for the chance to do so. That was what, whole weeks? GOOD JOB!!
Of course I'm hurt, won't pretend I'm not, but I've not cried about this. I'm pretty much done here. And don't worry, the door is shut, permanently and forever. No more chances. He's shown his true capabilities. Honestly, I think even if he wants to try and make this work, he CAN'T. He doesn't have the skill set and emotional maturity. Quite sad, actually. I've realized this as we've discussed love and relationships over the last few weeks. Emotionally, he's on par with a middle school boy. And I'm tired of carrying the load and waiting for him to grow up. So there we go...
There's more gory details in my journal, if you're interested. In the meantime, any support from DS would be helpful. I'm done with the crying, but I know I still need some hugs and reassurance....
Thank you, all.... I don't know how I would have made it through the last couple of months without you guys, and I know I will need you in the months ahead....
The silver lining -- since the divorce is a for sure go, you will see me in VEGAS, baby! lol!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
That new relationship will end as quickly as it started. It was built on bullshit and dishonesty so it's doomed to fail. Especially when they hit a snag, and all relationships hit a snag, then one of them will stop trusting because they both know that the other is a deceptive cheater.
Sending you hugs...It hurts now but it will work out. You've got a head start on a lot of us. The new year is almost here and we all plan to resolve to lose weight. You just lost at least 200 lbs of dead weight.....CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
Anyway, you sound like a strong woman, and you will get though this. Have a great time in Vegas!!!
Go ahead and cry.
Get it out, but you deserve so much more than an 8 year old!!!!
You will get through this. We are here for you.