since i broke up with my ex iv had a few different people coming on to me, (all male) i have facebook & my status went from engaged to single, all of a sudden i got a few male friend requests & the male friends i already had started calling me "babes" i was pretty angry with them all, do they think im desperate? is that how people see us now we are single? i wouldnt dream of getting into a relationship with someone fresh out of a relationship. its dangerous. 2 of them were in there twentys & 1 was 32 & 1 was 35, one 1 was near my age, he was 42. (im 44) i know them all & thought they were friends but now i dont think i want to be. i dont use facebook anymore because of it & i changed my status to "single but unavailable" i also had a male friend who,s been a very good friend for many years but even he spoiled our friendship by asking for a date the second he found out i was single. im getting quite snappy with anyone who speaks to me now, i work with alot of males but i think they think im ignorant because i wont join in their conversations, i feel insulted that they take it im desperate. am i over reacting? i dont want a relationship with anyone at the moment but i dont want to end up hating men.
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