In the divorce papers I had my lawyer wipe out all the junk about visitation and put that the visitation would be "Decided at upon at that time and reasonable". I had him give me full custody. My lawyer thought this was a bit much. My STBX last year started a kitchen fire because he had taken too many prescription meds after drinking alcohol and just fell asleep. What if I had not been there to put it out and the kids were there visiting? He passed out in the garden under the sprinkler because he o.d.ed on some prescription meds while drinking alcohol. What if I hadn't been there to call 911 and my kids were there by themselves? I think a person like this doesn't need to be able to have the right to have visitation with children unless they are supervised.
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