if i knew i was going to live happily ever after with my ex, yes i would go back in a heartbeat. and i don't think your weak because that is what you want.

My ex destroyed any inkling of thinking we could be happy together. She showed a side that I never thought the woman I loved had. She assured us never being together again by her ruthless, spiteful, deadly, cold, ungodly actions.

Theres no room for speculation about her.

I would get back together with my husband in a heartbeat. I "do" get tired of hearing the "You'll find someone else" sentence too, but they are only trying to help. Some "don't" know how painful it is to go through this process, that's why they say it.

You are not weak. You are optimistic and you don't want to give up. I am the same way. I will fight till the end. I only feel this way because I believe in my vows and I take them seriously. Also, I didn't go through abuse and adultery (I have suspicions, but don't know for a fact) so I feel the need to "fight".

I'm with ya sock. Not gonna happen.

well, does it matter what you think and want? does HE want to get back together?

it's not weak unless you go back as a servant and not equal after begging

The last thing I want is someone else.
I haven't recovered from this one!

I hate the "you'll find somebody". and the offers to find someone for me.

It's not weak to want your marriage to work no matter how troubled it is.
I stayed with mine for years trying to make things work.
Only when i knew for certain that I'd done everything I could possibly do and it still wasn't working, did I leave.
Good luck to you and God bless.

Alone is okay. Theres no law saying that you have to cut off your head again.