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Am I The Only One?

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I am relatively new to this site, a couple of weeks ago my husband said he was interested in another woman who works for him and thinks he should live on his own to sort things out.

Here's the thing. He doesn't want to give up our life together so he has been dragging his heels on moving out or telling any of our friends or family about his intentions. While he has been home, our sex life has sky rocketed. Has anyone else gone through this? This is a part of my emotional roller coaster.

Am I a fool to put out? Because I am enjoying just as much as he is. Maybe I'm just nuts. I don't know anymore. After reading everyone's personal experiences, it seems like we are doomed because he has "wandered" emotionally.
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Sounds like he's having is cake (OW) & eating it too (you) - no pun intended. Sky rocketing sex can be a result of infidelity. Not telling you what to do, but please be careful. Great sex isn't worth getting sick or dying for.
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Thanks for the reply wistful. I really don't think they have slept together at this point. He has admitted to only kissing. We are trying to be as honest as possible, but maybe you're right. We are looking into counseling so maybe that will help too. I am still new to this and probably naive. I guess I really want "us" to make it, but the part that feels ill inside, says it isn't going to happen.
Sometimes I think the sex is clinging for me and maybe guilt release for him. I don't know. Welcome to my world of thinking.
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