My husband has been with his girlfriend for almost 5wk,s now and hasen,t bothered that much with our son,despite all this our son has kept in touch with his dad,sadly things were not that good between us so i never bothered sending him anymore messages via txt,yesterday callum [our son] rang me at home to ask if his father had txt me?,i told him no,then callum said dads lost his job [he,s been made redundant] he also told cal that his whore who he,d left me for! was moving out and going back to where she came from,to cut a long story short,i thought i would send him a message saying how sorry i am that he,s lost his job,and that he,d split with his g/f,i didn,t expect him to answer me,but he did i gotta message saying "michelle leavin me nxt week as well lifes great ain,t it" michelle is obviously the whore,who not only knew he was married she encouraged him to basically screw his marriage up,she herself had a so called womanising husband,who she had three kids with and was prepared to leave her three kids who are 23,18 and 16yrs however if her old man is a womaniser why have 3 kids with him? and i,m sorry but the last thing i would ever do is leave my son to pursue a man! well as expected i was the last to know when this all started i only found out mid november,yet despite all of this i still love my husband very much but i will never have him back because i can never ever trust him,if i,m honest i am upset for him as he had left me to set up in a new flat and it was only after he had moved into his flat that she came over,he told me the reason he was moving out as it wouldn,t be right for him to have an affair whilst living under the same roof,i have been mad as hell at him and yes i thought well bugger you, you get what you deserved but he has signed the lease on his flat which is a year long lease he has lost his job at the end of this month,i have offered to help him with job hunting,right now i am absoulutly positive i do not want him back,cuz when trust is gone then theres no point in getting back together and i can,t live with him knowing he delibratly decived me for almost a year, all that time belitterling me and calling me names and i didn,t do anything wrong,he would stay at work late because he was talking to her online at the same time planning to leave me, well he got his way,but it all seem,s to have gone pearshaped,am i setting myself up again? i can,t lie i still love him but i can,t trust him anymorewithout trust all you have left is suspistion and i,d would always be wondering who else he was speaking to? i am halfway through the divorce and i will not stop it however can we be friend,s or am i being a fool>
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