I read a lot about how people on here never saw it coming. They thought everything was fine in the marriage and they are completely devastated when their spouse just leaves them without warning. My wife told me seven months ago that she wanted a divorce. She went to counciling with me and on her own. We read several really good books on marriage. She did try to make it work one last time. Now that she is almost sure she could never love me the way a wife should love a husband, she wants a divorce. We are going to remain friends, we still have a great sex life, she is helping me find a house to buy and she still calls me at work every morning to tell me she loves me. We still go to church and sit next to each other like nothing is wrong. Has anyone else been through anything like this? I think I am lucky. She even said she doesnt want any child support until I get on my feet!!
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