I'm in a rebound relationship at the moment and I think I am losing my mind. I have lost myself in this person (completely inexplicable and hopefully I will get over it soon dammit!) but I have had help from him as he is giving me really mixed messages. He is the one who calls me all the time, I only call him if he's called me, because I'm trying really hard not to look "needy". I got up the courage to tell him that I'm in love with him and he's told me he loves me too. My problem is that every time he thinks he's told me too much, or feels that he's spent too much time with me (because apparently he's never been like this with anyone before and he's kind of a private person)he disappears from my life for a few days, at the very least. Usually he's calling me again, within two days but it's sometimes been a week or more. My heart is taking a beating because I can't switch it on and off like he does. Not only has he told me he loves me back but he's told me he likes it when I tell him I love him. Should I be courageous and ask him flat out to be straight up with me? I just don't want to make him mad enough to let me go. This man has done a real number on me and I have lost enough of my self esteem through this separation that I'm letting him. I feel like an ass but it hurts so much when he ignores me, and then I'm so euphoric when we're together. It's doing a real number on me. Men, is he just using me for a booty call? Why tell me he loves me? Help
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