Hello I am a proud mother of two my husband and I have been married for 17 years we did separate for 2 wks and then said we will try to work it out. We start to see outside help on Tuesday which he has agreed to but it seems as if things have not changed and I don't know if it is me because I expect to much or if I am just tired of giving him reminders and notes of things that need to be done when I am at work. When he is at home I have to remind him to take the trash out or if it is trash night, I have to remind him to give the kids their medication and clean the cat box and give them fresh water, in other words, I expect him to do what I would do if I were to be at home and not at work, and I have to remind him about taking the trash to the curb otherwise he will forget and we will have two weeks of trash that never went out. I feel like a mother to him and not a wife. When I am free spirt and nice to him he thinks that is an open door for sex, which is not on my mind because he has let himself go, and I have expressed these concerns to him, all he says is I will try, or his job is so much harder than my job and he has alot on his plate. I am tired of having our jobs put next to each other I am tired of being a mother to three and a wife to no one. All I get from him, is he will try. Its like living with a child in a grown mans body. I worry at times that he is with the kids when I am at work or when he has them in his car. He has the mind of a teenager and the temper of an angry driver. He always says, never with my kids in the car but he has done it with all of us in the car. Am I expecting too much from him to do what I would do if I were at home, keeping the house clean , cleaning the house just not putting things away, I do some things at night because it make it easier for me in the morning with the kids, but he does not do that stuff, on my day off I have to scrub the house and do the bills and the shopping. I don't know what to do should I lay off or go with if you want somthing done right you have to do it yourself !
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