The STBX and I signed the documents for the divorce on December 7, 2007. It will be over on February 8, 2008. She told me that she wanted a divorce in November and I moved out that same week. AT that time she said that she did not have anyone else, it was that we were not compatiable anymore. I later found out in November that she had a relationship with another man for over a year. I have to guess that it was for a year because she refuses to talk to me about it. She refuses to tell me who he is. She said that what happen to us had nothing to do with him. I think that is pure BULLSHIT!! For over 12 months we were supposed to be trying to salvage our marriage. We went to counseling (she complained that the counselor took my side), I worked on everything that she said I did not do. I really put alot into trying to save the marriage. I noticed and complained to her that she had changed. She was much colder, and very uncaring. Yet she said she loved me and wanted to try to save the marriage. How could she want to save the marriage when she is sleeping with two men at the same time. For her to say that another man had nothing to do with our marriage failing just blows my mind. Am I crazy or could she be right.
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