
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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The OW is trying to press charges on me for harassment. She thinks I am threating her kids. STBX told my family the the OW's mother has gotten an atty and they have already filed charges on me. I have done nothing her recently but 4-5 months back yes I did. I faxed things to their work and if I knew I could get into trouble for it I would of never did it. The only reason why I did do it was because she had just confessed she had been sleeping with my husband and was telling me how good their relationship is. Am I crazy by hating her? I know what I did was wrong, but what she did was wrong also. She has pictures on her myspace of her and my husband and in the captions it say Me & my mann and he is still married. I really feel like I am crazy because the only think I want is for them to get what is coming to them and I wrong for thinking this way?
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I don't think "crazy" is the word we would use. Perhaps, "misguided" is more appropriate.
The sooner you begin spending your time and energy on yourself and your own life, the better. Trying to get revenge, while understandable, is the wrong battle, wrong war, and would not likely leave you feeling very triumphant in the end. Just hollow.
There is one cliche that I still can't argue with - the best revenge is living well. Do that and let these two do whatever it is they are going to do. You have a future, so work on that.
What do you think? Is that possible?
Peace.