To sum up an exhaustingly long story...remarried my first husband and he's quit on the marriage for a second time saying he "doesn't have what it takes to be married" and he refuses to do counseling. (well, he doesn't refuse, but he never goes and is very passive aggressive about everything). Anyhow, we're sharing the same house for financial reasons until I finish school and its awkward as all hell to say the least. Anyhow, I've asked that he make other arrangements for the holidays (meaning, that he stays elsewhere) and as much as I feel I had a right to do so, I'm feeling conflicted becuase my mom thinks it was bitchy of me. He's been a god awful husband, has ruined every holiday since I've married him and I just don't want to deal with his crap this holiday season. The holidays are already going to be tough...I'd like to try to have some peace on those days and just have the house to myself. Was this an unreasonable request?
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