My STBX live about 5 minutes away. We've basically gotten along through the last 8 months of this divorce. Even going on "dates", doing family activities, etc. He had a desire to make things work. Recently, he has done a total turn around. Refused invitations, even one to our daughters birtday party the other day. He has had no contact since he dropped the kids of early yesterday morning. I dont mean to sound psycho, but it's unsual considering the way things were going. I guess my question is..with him living so close, is it normal for him to only want contact on his "court appointed" days? I feel he could call and check in, see if we need anything. Maybe Im being overly sensitive but i have to say this major change has hurt me. I feel like he's just dismissed us until it's his "day" or "weekend"...Anyone else have a situation such as this, an opinion..Or am i just having a hard time accepting that this is they way it will now be, even though 3 weeks ago he was sitting at my kitchen table. Baffling. Just wondering.
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