in a relatinship for 23years being married 18 of those 23 years. lived with 3 affairs from my husband and many many days of selfishness. I have gotten to the point where I feel like I am a single parent because all he seems to be concerned with is what he wants, what he needs when he wants it and nothing else. He spends time with us if its not an inconvenience but would portray to everyone that we are this perfect family. Am I wrong to say enough is enough? He has recently had 3 deaths in his family in the last 6 months with one of those being his only sister and now his mom has recently undergone a very serious operation? I asked for a divorce prior to any of this happening but the first death occured 4 days after I requested a divorce and I put everything on the back burner to be there for him but with no appreciation from him. Am I now being insensitve to want to follow through with the divorce? I am totally miserable and is now contemplating an affair. I have always always hated affairs because I know the hurt they cause.
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