Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been broken up with my boyfriend for 8 months now we have a 18 month old daughter together. I am desperatly trying to reach out to him, I want him back. We have tried a couple of times but he says he doesn't love me, but points out the problems, says I was never happy, but did not take any responsibility for that. says i was always stressed, but didn't take into consideration he left me to care for his 8 yr old daughter and our daughter and all he had to do is work....He says he is a good guy...there is nothing wrong with him. Guess its all me problem is I believe it. If I was more happier, not as stressed ect maybe he would not have thrown out me and our daughter. I am getting myself sick over this man.
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hun, i'm not trying to be smart...but I think you answered your own question. "I am getting myself sick over this man"....NO MAN is worth your health!!! *HUGS* Time to start thinking about you and your beautiful daugther!
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He is not a good guy. There is something wrong with him. Of course he has to work all the time: he chose to have two children.
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Read your other post too and you need to get help for yourself because you need to see that he isn't as great as you want him to believe. He needed you to take care of his kid and now you added to the bunch. I'm so sorry for you and I don't want to rag on you but I too had to realize that my H was not that great after all (he had other issues thankfully not a plantation of kids).
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Just like "whenpigsfly" said, THERE IS NO MAN WORTH GETTING SICK OVER! I know it hurts, I was w/my BF 8 years & then he thought I was wasting my time because he won't take the next step in our relationship. He says he loves me & cares but feels it wasn't fair to me. I have been so upset, crying at work and it has only been one month. Hang in there and talk to someone for you! **Hugs**
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The RIGHT guy wouldn't make you sick! No one is perfect, but if this relationship is effecting your health then it's not good for you. You deserve peace and happiness!
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Caring for children can certainly keep you on edge especially the young ones. Sounds like he left that up to you. Don't blame yourself for this.
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thank you everyone for your support and advise. I read this everyday
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