almost 2 years ago my husband informed me out of the blue that he no longer loves me and was unhappy he moved out for 3weeks then was home about 4mths then left again for 2weeks and had been home until 3 weeks ago (during that time we lived competely has man and wife )well 3 weeks ago i found out he was cheating when confronted he put his hands on me and push me all the frustration and anger that has built up these past two years finally erupted and i did my best to beat him stupid! i will give him credit and say that he just lay there and took it. since leaving he has never once called and checked on his kids the youngest of which ask me everyday to talk to his daddy and i have to tell him i dont know how to get ahold of his daddy . 4days after he left he had the lights turned off with now warning for me to make arragements. and to top things off when he got paid last weekend he didnt bring any money like promised. i found out he called the law and filed a report that i hit him. well two days ago i went to his job ( he works graves at a casino) and i took a bunch of his stuff out of his car. (could have been nasty and broke or other wise messed up the car but i didnt) one of his friends called yesterday trying to find out info about it I flat out let him know that i had not damaged any of the ex's stuff that it was sitting here and when he was man enough to come face his children and could let me know when he planned on paying his child support he could have it back. well on my way home from work this morning my oldest child called and said that the ex, his friend and the sheriff were here that he did not even act like he saw his 7 year old son when they were leaving. i rushed home and they were already gone ( i took him off my lease plus found my house key in his stuff) so they couldn't get in. Am i being a bitch for acting this way? I feel i could really be nasty if i wanted to even cost his his job since the other woman works with him. i have known this man for 15 years been married 12 and after mental abuse by him for several years now he acts scared of me because i finally snapped and then only because he put his hands on me my biggest problem in all this is he left me not his children
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