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I don't know what to think. My husband has been talking to me since Sunday that this is where he needs to be he wants his family. Well tonight I tried calling him and it went to his voicemail. I am the PI because he has cheated and I checked it. Well it was the girl that he cheated on me with. She was telling him sorry that they didn't get together this weekend because she got drunk and passed out. She told him to call her anytime so they can reconnect their wonderful weekend they had before. Well then my husband calls and we start discussing us. He tells me he is afraid to come home and he "under lock and key". I said all I expect is for you to be respectful to us and he faithful. I asked if that was to much to ask for and he said no. Well then why would he save her voicemail that she left him last night while he was here with the kids and I? Oops I accidentally deleted the voicemail too. I know it is shady for me to do that, but if you cheat what do you expect? Also this girl he slept with is my kids godparents friend. So the kids godparents hooked them up. This all makes me sick to my stomach!
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Why is getting an honest answer so hard? Perhaps because some people grew up believing that not being honest is how to behave.
Would it work if you changed your phone number?
Are you 100% sure the godparents hooked up these 2? Be sure before you cut off ties. They may be just as unsuspecting as you were.
Consider the definition of insanity.
Are you saying I am insane reinvent?
Your story sounds so much like mine. I recently found out that my husband was not "in love" with me and had feelings for another woman (who is also married by the way) and that he had an affair about 3 years ago. Until today, I was willing to forgive him and do whatever I could to make him love me again. Today in our counceling session, he disclosed that before the affair 3 yrs ago, he had also had anothe affair, both of which were sexual. That was the last straw for me. I told him today that it was completely over with us. I have to have enough self respect not to let him do this to me. Even if I do forgive him, I don't accept what he has done to me to be rewarded with my love, attention and more time. I have given him over 14 yrs of my life and I only have my two wonderful boys to show for it. Nothing else from him. I hope that you find strength in yourself and find yourself more worthy of what he is doing to you. I am going to be very lonely and very sad for my loss, but in the end I do believe this is what is best for me and my children, and that is respect. My thoughts are with you. I know first hand what you are going through. Make your decision and don't let him take advantage of your "healing" any longer.
Just saying, maybe they didn't know what was going on. I don't know your details or how you found out. Was hoping, just maybe, a friendship wasn't lost. But standing in your shoes, if they helped with your husbands cheating, then their never was a true friendship to YOU!
One definition of insanity, and one that was posted here a couple of days ago, is doing the same thing again and again but expecting a different result.
I could not, in all honesty, point a finger at you and call you insane.