Since the day I married that jerk it has been about money. What I had and he wanted, well I'm sick of it. Well he had great fun spending all that money to the point that it is all gone, now he wants me to pay for a divorce I don't want! Guess what it ain't gonna happen! He has been whining about not having a job so could I help him out a little? Aaa... let me see, I had no job when he left, I have been doing little things to get by and that money is precious to me so.... NOPE sorry can't help!! I'm moving to a place where I have a better job waiting for me but I am NOT gonna help him out even then. He caused this mess for himself and I am to busy cleaning up the shattered pieces of my life to fix his. So why do I feel so guilty? Why is it always about money? UGH I am so mad, hurt, confused, and ah hell the whole spectrum of feelings. Guess I just need from you all some validation about not helping him. Thanks!
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