I am trying to decide if 3 months is a good enough time to fully except filing for divorce. My wife wants to see other people while separated but doesnt want to file for divorce because it is a hassle. I cant be married to someone like this but I dont want to be the one filing for a divorce I dont want. Its not that I cant do it, its just if I am going to do it I have to want to do it. Maybe I am trying to give myself the time to get ready for it and accept our failed marriage for what it is. I told my wife we agreed together when we got married and we should be in complete agreement when we end it. I defiantly dont want to drag this out. Maybe this is a way for me to have closure without regrets. Our situation is we dont hate each other we do care for each other so this will be a non contested divorce. I just want to know if I am doing right by allowing me the 3 months to feel like I am ready to divorce or should I shorten the time. Also has anyone done the do it yourself divorce and how is it working for you.