
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

keepthehope
I am trying to decide if 3 months is a good enough time to fully except filing for divorce. My wife wants to see other people while separated but doesnt want to file for divorce because it is a hassle. I cant be married to someone like this but I dont want to be the one filing for a divorce I dont want. Its not that I cant do it, its just if I am going to do it I have to want to do it. Maybe I am trying to give myself the time to get ready for it and accept our failed marriage for what it is. I told my wife we agreed together when we got married and we should be in complete agreement when we end it. I defiantly dont want to drag this out. Maybe this is a way for me to have closure without regrets. Our situation is we dont hate each other we do care for each other so this will be a non contested divorce. I just want to know if I am doing right by allowing me the 3 months to feel like I am ready to divorce or should I shorten the time. Also has anyone done the do it yourself divorce and how is it working for you.
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