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I just received my wifes proposal for support. She wants me to pay the entire mortgage and allow her to live there until the house is sold (with the market in Central PA the way it is that could be two years). Give her $750/month in spousal support. Continue to pay her college loan until paid. Pay for her and her girls health insurance for the remainder of the year. And to top of all that pay for the miscellaneous bills we acquired together during our marriage. This has to be settled prior to the divorce settlement. All this and pay for a place to live somewhere else. Where does she expect me to live...under a bridge? This is from a woman who had the courts fax me a PFA while working two thousand miles away!
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Remember, this is just a proposal.
I offered to pay the mortgage while my wife and kids stay in the house until the youngest graduates high school (5 years) and I told her she could have all the furniture, art and electronics in the house. She responded that she wanted me to GIVE her the house.
She also wants to own my life insurance policy, give her $4000 per month in spousal support, provide all health insurance, pay for both girls college and cars when they each turn 16 AND (this is my favorite), she is not required to get a full-time job for at least ten years.
Wanna trade?
Pennsylvania is a no-fault state. It'll be 50/50 on the assets and debts, and up to 40% of your net income for child and spousal support, typically for a period of 1/2 the term of the marriage (child support 'til 18). If she's working or can work, the spousal support may be reduced or granted for less time, depending on her income and capacity to earn.
My counter offer is court-ordered minimum child support and spousal support and the immediate sale of the house with an equal split of all marital assets and liabilities.
I'm betting she goes with what's behind curtain number 1.