I recently moved away from my soon to be x and am now looking for a job, registering my daughter in school doing all the things that come with living in a different state theres so much besides unpacking and doing the jobs a husband would do around the house (tho for a long time he did nothing) I am so overwhelmed and exhausted. I am trying to be so strong. Then I find out he bought a NEW car, a new laptop, has a beautiful apartment all the things I cant have I had to move to a povertry section he wont give me any help I will have to get what I can through the state tho I for now refuse welfare I want to work instead. He calls rarely usually to tell me oh the last time the state taxes came in he wanted me to sign them right away and mail his half back. He NEVER asks how we are never asks how his daughter is. As far as he sees life we dont exist how does someone just do that?? And not care?? How do I deal??? I get angry I get sad I get confused I get anxiety attacks. No its not fair but its what I got. It sucks I hate it sometimes. Why is this the way it is and its so right??? (in his eyes) I need some support here I cant vent at home I have a child and shes dealing with this too she feels "thrown away" and I dont speak of him in front of her.
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