I had court today to determine whethere there is reason enough for a restraining order against my stbx. On the bright note, it got ordered and I have physical custody of the kids. He gets them every other weekend. We have our next court date on Feb. 15. On the downside, he started talking about what a bad mother I am to the judge. Today was not even about custody but he felt compelled to say everything. He told the judge that his girlfriend was a better mother than me. He also said that all I feed the kids is bologna and chips and that all they do is watch tv. He also brought up my mom's disability. She has emphasemia, is thats how you spell it. She also takes care of my two kids who are not in school while I am gone at school or whatever. What he doesn't know is that my dad is now retired and home with the kids all the time too. Its just pisses me off because when we were together my mom was I guess very capable of taking care of the kids but all the sudden now she is not. He just started saying everything he could think of to make me look bad. I couldn't believe it. I almost started crying right there in court. I didn't respond because my lawyer didn't so I figure that my stbx only made himself look bad. I just can't believe that a few months ago he loved me and now I am the worst person and mother in the world. Sorry I am venting so much. Just got to get this off my chest. Thanks for reading it.
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