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hey, The site FINALLY let me in. My ladyfreind and I are kinda seperated right now. She has issues from a previous relationship that are really messing her up,rightfully so. Past 4 months her need for space have been pushing us further away, and i know my attempts to hold on probably haven't helped.
I know she's "the one" and she's such a good person, Why she refuses to get help is so confusing to me, I even offered couples counseling , but thats out too.i haven't seen or spoken to her in a week, and only spent about 8 hours with her all month, most of that trying to talk things through, but it only upsets her more.
I don't know where I stand right now, and I'm living on hope. All I know is I hurt really bad inside, wondering what it is I could've done better, or what I can do now except wait, I love her with all my heart, and i know she loves me in her way, maybe still, I don't know,I just wish we could work this out so that she can feel better and we can move forward to the life we both deserve. I know I have a lot of love to give, and i believe deep down she does too, I just don't know what to do except to honor her request for space and continue to hope.
I know she's "the one" and she's such a good person, Why she refuses to get help is so confusing to me, I even offered couples counseling , but thats out too.i haven't seen or spoken to her in a week, and only spent about 8 hours with her all month, most of that trying to talk things through, but it only upsets her more.
I don't know where I stand right now, and I'm living on hope. All I know is I hurt really bad inside, wondering what it is I could've done better, or what I can do now except wait, I love her with all my heart, and i know she loves me in her way, maybe still, I don't know,I just wish we could work this out so that she can feel better and we can move forward to the life we both deserve. I know I have a lot of love to give, and i believe deep down she does too, I just don't know what to do except to honor her request for space and continue to hope.
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I also wanted to save someone. Felt that I could be her protector..she was a victim of abuse as a child and as a teen. Now I have become the victim of her abuse. I would tread cautiously and think tiwce about staying with someone taking this position.
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Hey, thanks for the reply. I know what you mean, but I see the worth in her even if she doesn't. What a wonderful person she is, I'm no masochist,if it was anyone else I'd have walked long ago.i"ve thought twice and even three times , guess i'm going for four.
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I did exactly what you did. It will not work out. You have to let her go. She's not the one. It's your idea of who she is that makes you think she's the one. The one would not have issues so don't wait by the phone for her call. Go enjoy yourself and you'll find the real one. you really just need input from others to say she's not it.
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