Ok, I was with my ex-wife for 5 to 7 years (5 good ones, and 2 not-so-good ones). We have children together. We've been divorced for awhile now and I have a gf. We have been together for a few years, but we have a serious problem. We'll talk about something that my ex does or says to the children, and if I say it doesn't bother me or if I have a similar opinion as that of my ex, I ALWAYS get accused of siding with my ex! If it's my opinion, how can i be taking sides? Am I not entitled to an opinion about my own children, or do I have to listen to my ex's opinion and my current gf's opinion and pick a side? I say it's a bunch of BS! Am I wrong for thinking this way, or do I have a valid point? Help me because I think I'm going to explode!
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