Is it possible to completely start over at 32? I mean, can I expect to go on and enjoy the possibility of a new family (children) with a new love? I feel like I've been fooled once and deserve better. I never quit on my marriage. I was always willing to work on the areas that I need to improve. She seems to only want to blame me for all her unhappiness. What bull!! She'd like to think that we're the only couple who has had to endure the lows of relationship turmoil. She's also unable to remove the shit goggles that are strapped to her face (like everything we ever did was shit). I said "honey, what about our trip to Europe and all the good times we had?". To which she said, "all you wanted to do was stay at your grandmothers house..". What the $&$*%&. Not sure how to respond to that. I enjoyed every minute of our trip to Europe (except for the part where we had our camera stolen)! She hasn't left yet but I'm starting to feel very mad. I don't deserve this! This was her first serious relationship. We got married young. I suppose this might explain her lack of perspective. Marriage is not all a bowl of cherries. We had a child and shit got difficult. But I never quit! Ahhhhh...
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