
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Even though my ex seems to be trying to move on with any female that will give him the time of day.. I am so afraid of moving on. I have moved on from wanting him in my life.. what I am talking about is moving on to a new relationship. I am lonely, and I have no one to talk to(well, anyone of the opposite sex anyway). But I am too scared to really put myself out there.. what if the next one is worse than the ex? I have done a lot of work on myself, and I feel that I have some a long way in the past 9 months since finding DS. But I still dont know if I have gone far enough to feel safe to date. Any thoughts.. anyone else feel as I do??
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Maybe it will go away? lol.
There's no law that says we have to be hooked up with someone all of the time.
So what that he's screwing around with anything that gives him the time of the day. That does not mean that he's "moved on." It means he is running around with women.
Focus on getting healthy. It is normal to miss being with someone, but it is healthy to learn to like being independent.
A healthy adult should be able to entertain and pacify their self. If you can't stand to be alone, you probably don't need to be dating.
Good luck. It is hard, but you can learn to be happy single, and without dates.
for fun....just go on some friendly dates...like @ starbucks or something...just to boost ur confidence. no hurt in that....just dont get attached and u'll be fine! good of luck and best wishes hun :)
I like talking to the guys here...but don't want to with any where I live (YUCK). And just not ready to date.
I think we will know it when the time is right.
Right now, enjoy finding out who you are...
Not ready and definitely will not just put myself out there for anyone to grab. I have to believe that one day it will be right for me and until then I will have to make new friends and enjoy myself again. I want to fall in love with me and take care of me before I can enjoy another.
Lessons: learned
Tests: passed
Go slow :)