I am new to this site and am so glad I found it. My husband and I are separating after xmas. We have been married 16 yrs. Three children. It's me. I'm the one who wants it. I have felt for so long that he was never emotionally there for me. He was very helpful with everything around the house, kids, homework, cleaning except where I really needed it. I dont feel attracted to him anymore. I love him and care about him but want so much more. I really dont think he can give it to me. Im worried about my kids. We dont have fights. We have always gotton along well. I want something more to my life. I dont know if I'll ever find it. I have been the one to handle everything and i just want some separation from him. I have gone to couseling and we went to family therapy but not couples yet. We are going to. Somehow I feel like I have made my mind up. We are getting an apt close by and we will share it. The kids will stay at the house and we will switch back and forth. I just want to be happy and fill fulfilled. And I so dont right now. I want my kids to come thru ok. please let me know if any of you have gone thru a similar situation and what you did or what helped. Thanks
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