Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I\'m new to all of this. I shouldn\'t be lonely or bored considering that I have three small children to take care of. Yet here I sit, alone while my husband is sound asleep with his girlfriend and without a care. I can\'t seem to get my lawyer to move our divorce along any faster than what it is going so I am completly frustrated with her. I guess instead of rambling on... maybe I\'ll just ask my question huh? ;) I have temp. divorce papers that are signed by the court ordering my husband to pay for all medical bills including medicines for myself and the children until the final divorce. He has not been doing so and now owes me several several hundred dollars. I can\'t seem to get my lawyer to do anything because she says that we just need to go to mediation and let his lawyer know what is going on and maybe he will talk to my husband and explain to him that he is in contempt of court. yada yada yada... anyway, I have been the one cleaning up the mess of his mistakes and have been responsible for all of the bills that we acumulated while we were together... including our house.. which I can now no longer afford by myself. He refuses to even give me $20 for the baby\'s medication when I needed it. I\'m just not sure if anyone has any suggestions as to how to get him to pay what he is already ordered to pay? And I know my lawyer should be doing something, but she isn\'t and I don\'t have the money to switch now. HELP? :)
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
I, too, am cleaning up a mess that my husband left behind! Thank God so far it isn\'t anything major as far as bills, but still stinks!
There is a ton of info online if you look up support for divorce. Maybe you could start there for now! I am extremely lucky that my meds are only $20 a month and I have that much for now!
If you need to talk, please email me!
Folks there are used to dealing with spouses, (would that be spice? Mouse, mice...) who are less than perfect specimens. They might have some good knowledge on how to deal with your situation.
To help with expenses there is something called WIC. I think it stands for Women and Infant Children. It makes sure you have enough food, saving your limited resources for rent or mortgage. Good luck. hang tough