My name is Cristy. I have been with my husband for 4 years and married almost 2 of those 4 years. He is in the AirForce and I work as a CAREgiver. I believe that we are headed for divorce. There are so many things that are conflicting for us right now. My husband is from Iowa and I am from MD. He wants to move back to IA and i do not... He said that there was no way he would ever live in MD and i feel the same way about IA. He isnt romantic anymore, When we go out... its all about where he wants to go. For instance... i wanted to go to emmitsburg MD to visit my grandfathers grave site. I had asked trevor (my husband) since the year we got together to take me and we havent gone. There is always an excuse "im too tired" "i have alot of things to do"... When i cry... he shuts down and doesnt aknowlege it at all. Well weve tried fixing all of our problems and it doesnt seem to be working so 2 weeks ago i told him i was going home... he said ok... It seems like he doesnt even care... i dont know what to do... i love him... i just wish he loved me too and loved me enough to not let me go... loved me enough to change...
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