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Advice from anyone would be appreceiated

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I just found out yesterday that my ex is living with someone new. He messaged me today and asked what time he needed to pick up our 2 boys on Saturday. I gave him a time and asked him if he would be taking them back to his new place and he did not respond. I then messaged him and told him that I would like to know where my boys will be staying and that I would like to meet anyone new that my boys are going to be around. He said that was fine. I have no problem with him moving on although it does hurt and I am scared for my boys. He is not very responsible and thinks only of himself and has had no contact with his boys except on his weekends. Now I am going to meet his new "interest" and I just need support on how to handle this and be strong for the benefit of my kids. Is it also ok to discuss this with my kids on Friday to make them aware that they will be staying somewhere new? They have no idea of any of this and they are 5 & 3. Anyone have advice on how they dealt with these situations.
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Kids can be way more flexible than we (adults)are, so I would advise you against trying to "prepare" them for this in any way. Chances are you'd wind up making them anxious.
However, if you get any inkling at all of abuse or neglect during the visits, get right on the horn back to your lawyer about the conditions of the custody!!!
As for the kids, well, only you can know but I'm not sure that they understand the concepts, and I am sure that you are above being negative about your ex to them.