This is the second time now I've caught him
in a lie like this. There's this girl he talks to on the regular and when I ask what they talk about he says she complains about her bf and she asks him how he's doing. I always ask him since they used to be a thing if she asks about us; he tells me no but I have screenshots and one I found out from tonight that he does talk to her about us. But the first time I caught him he told her was drunk and he wanted to call her and ask her to runaway with him to some far away country and that he wanted to get away from me in which I quote, " I definitely don't want to go with this a suite bitch I'm with now." Granted he is the abusive one who can't control his anger and has sever bipolar disease and refuses to take his meds for it. He blames me and acts as the victim in every single fight. He told me when he got caught that they were both just "venting" to each other and he didn't mean any of it... This second time, she had hit him up again and he responded so I asked what he told her, or if she asked about us again. (FYI, he's also a pathological liar). So once again, not to my surprise, he lied and said she didn't ask about me and him and was just complaining. Well, she did ask and I even have the screenshot of him telling her something he told me previously that I now know was a big lie and that he was trying to get out of this relationship...I'm not sure what to do, we've been together for almost 4 years and now the thought of him and marrying him makes me want to break down in tears. Not to mention, I caught him trying to be super quiet the other morning at 6AM!!! ON FACETIME with a whole different girl and then learned that he had FaceTimed her a month ago in a group call with someone else after him telling me he hadn't talked to her in 6 months. Please help me figure out what to do or how to confront this situation without making it worse and how I found out.