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As some of ou know today is my birthday. I might receive a text from my stbx. I have just moved away and we barely talked during the separation process. I'm not sure if I should respond if she sends me a message (not expecting one). I think I should just ignore her. What do you guys suggest?
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Depends on what you think will happen from your response. Follow what your gut says it will become your best friend
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Depends on what you think will happen from your response. Follow what your gut says it will become your best friend
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A new year to your life,start it fresh without her...
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
don't overthink things.

If she texts.. you will know how to respond to the message... trust your instincts.

if there is no message..well.. again.. don't go there now. do not overthink things.. just have a good day... this is YOUR day.
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It sounds like to me that you are wishing and hopeing that she will. Give all hopes and dreams up. You must move on for new ones in your distant future. Do not open, do not. Do not live for yesterday's old false hopes and dreams. let them go.
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Do you like it when that train hit you. then get off of the tracks.
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By the way TRY AND HAVE A happy b-day. sORRY TO BE BLUNT
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JungleJoe you are totally correct. I know I need to be strong and only look ahead and not look back. My head knows what to do and I hope my heart listens as well.
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