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advice?

deleted_user
deleted_user
he insists it is over,4ever
doesnt want anything with me doesnt love me but i dont believe it,i kno he feels something 4me and i kno i make him happy as he does me
he wont evn talk to me atall

how can i get him back?
he means the world to me
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why would you want someone back who hurt you so badly? Most of us here have been through what you have. You can't make it work by yourself, if he won't work on it, then you have to face the fact that it's over. I went through the denial stage myself, it's part of the process. You will get through this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There is no magic way to get an ex back. It is painful for a lot of us. The best way to get back is to talk to him. If he chooses not to then there is nothing you can do except move on. I wish I could tell you something better but I cant.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't pursue him. It will only drive him away even more. It is hard not to. Do things to keep you busy. Things that will help keep your mind off things. Make sure that you are happy with yourself first and the rest will follow.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why would you want someone who says they don't want you? I know it hurts, trust me I know, but he is being very upfront with you by saying he is done. Don't you deserve someone you wants to be with you? We ALL deserve unconditional true love and that doesn't seem what he has for you. I know it is painful, but it may be time to move forward. Are you in counseling?
deleted_user
deleted_user
gosh...im crying *again*
i dont know how to find happiness anymore,he was my happiness no1 had ever made me feel so gud b4 him
y did it have to b taken away from me
i thought i had it all
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes i am...earliest appointment i can get is next friday
i feel as if im goin mental
i kno i am silly to stil wnt some1 who cud do that to me but i love him,i always have and i cant just switch it off
if i could believe me i would,i would gv anything not to feel this pain
4mytasha
4mytasha
Maybe you want him back for the stability he gives you in life so you won't be alone? I stayed WAY too long in my marriage for just that. Until I found I was worth way more than he gave me credit. You are too!
deleted_user
deleted_user
i want him back becos i love him with all my heart
if i didnt then i wud b able to let go but i cant i kno i cud b with some1 else if i realli wnted
but i dont! i want to be with him and only him he knows how i feel and that i am hurting like hell...yet he kps tellin me these things n ever time its lik he's stabbing me in the heart
deleted_user
deleted_user
when someone tells you they don't love you and does not want to be with you, you have to let go. i know it's like a knife in your heart, and you feel like you can't go on, but you can and will. by trying to stay in touch with him, you keep giving him the opportunity to hurt you more. that is why you have to stop contacting him, this healing process takes a long time. but you will get through it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
its lik i need him to survive,i kno i dont but u understnad wer im coming from?
if he was hre and it was the way it was,just a few days ago,i wud b so happy

y does life have to turn around so quickly for the worst
deleted_user
deleted_user
its been days n if anything i feel worse
deleted_user
deleted_user
it kps syn my account is blocked for 2day so i cnt send messages or hugs or anything??why
deleted_user
deleted_user
He is blocking your messages. Do not text, email or call him. Recover your dignity. Have big cries. Ask your therapist for medication if you need it to help you over.

He is a psycho to tell you he loves you one day and to dump you the next. You will never feel the same way with him as you did. You cannot go back in time. Yes, it is very f'ing hard.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, you mean on here?

Just means you have a new account. If you send an message to Doug (he should be in your friends list) or send an email to abuse@dailystrength.org and tell them to please unblock your account.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, here. Sorry.
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