ok kind of a strange question here - but thought i would ask if when you started dating your current ex did you have problems with their previous ex - if you did do you know think it may be because of how your ex treats there partners - like for me i can see my ex's ex partner was probably so confused when i started seeing my ex after they did - so i copped alot of abuse from my ex's ex - but the jigsaw is falling into place and although behaviours were wrong - it's like a thunderclap and it all makes sense - that the other ex didnt realize that they were being emotionally abused and needed someone to take it out on and i became the target - hope that makes sense as in hindsight i almost became as awful as the ex's ex was to me - but it was their PAgg style of emotional abuse that left the other ex a mess as well but i guess they never figured it out - but this is my first abusive relationship were i think my ex was literally trying to push me to suicide - yes for real everyone as they knew me inside out and backwards and would even have pleasant chats with my therapist - but its just i caught on to the abusive behaviour and the previous ex never did and instead went into another abusive relationship - i kind of feel sorry for her now .... anyway does anyone get what i am talking about - its the actual ex thats dangerous not the ex's ex like you maybe thought.... thanks everyone
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