
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am going thru a divorce as many of you may know. I also have a great son stuck in the middle of this. I have been trying to try out casual dating but, I am getting negative results. I have tried online dating but, came up empty handed. When I tell women about me and what I am going thru they tell me that I am not worth thier time. Some have said that they can't build a relationship with a divorced man. I feel like I am stained with this bad marriage. That I am old and used up so, I am tossed aside like trash. I don't know what to do. I guess I am too honest and open.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
a) you refer to yourself as a divorced man.. you are a single man
b) you talk about your past relationships on your first 10 dates
c) you need to change your frame of reference
you need to continue to look and look and find a quality women who rocks your world..... dont' give up
The other thing is, maybe it is the people you are trying to date; if you meet other divorced people or single moms they will understand you and accept your past more.
anyhow.. go out .. meet a lot of nice pple. men and women.. circulate..join a gym.. a sports club.. a stamp collecting club.. whatever.. and remember. you are a Single man.
Divorce has such a stigma still.. I do understand that.
You are a Single Dad.
Give it time, make friends, don't go in for the kill or you will chase them away. Get some help to deal with past marriage baggage and to lift your self esteem., get strong and happy in yourself.
A very wise person told me that we won't have ever have successful relationship with another person until we can successfully live with ourselves.
Please take this time to discover who you are. Learn to love yourself.
No one can complete themselves or fill the holes in our hearts with another person.
Once you find & truly love yourself, you will then have more friends & dates than you can imagine.
If you are divorced already, you are just looking in the wrong places or have not met the right girls. I would date a divorced man. The only thing is that I like to know the story. Who left the relationship? and things like that. Just don't give up on love.