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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
a personal struggle...need some support...

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Not long after my STBX moved out, I discovered lumps in my breast. So a couple days before my 35th birthday, I was having mammograms and meeting with a surgeon. I now have the surgery to remove them scheduled for the 23rd. Well, they threw a glitch into it today. I apparently didn't make it very clear that I have an arythmia (which was diagnosed 5 years ago and they attributed it to severe anxiety). So They now want an EKG done. I told them, I will never have a normal EKG. Well, they want it. I know exactly what's going to happen. I'm gonna go tomorrow for my EKG. It's gonna be abnormal. I'm going to be at the heart doctor Thu or Fri for the whole realm of tests there! Now I'm going to have to take leave from work without pay cuz I'm nearly out of sick leave.
I'm seriously about to have a breakdown. I don't want to go thru this alone. I don't want to have this EKG alone. I'm scared to death, with the way everything has been going for me, that I'll go to the heart doctor and find I have a clogged artery or something stupid and then have to have heart surgery. I'm absolutely terrified about going thru this alone. I know, I'm not a very positive right now. I just want to throw a fit. Talk about feeling like your STBX has a great life and left you with a pile of crap....
I'm seriously about to have a breakdown. I don't want to go thru this alone. I don't want to have this EKG alone. I'm scared to death, with the way everything has been going for me, that I'll go to the heart doctor and find I have a clogged artery or something stupid and then have to have heart surgery. I'm absolutely terrified about going thru this alone. I know, I'm not a very positive right now. I just want to throw a fit. Talk about feeling like your STBX has a great life and left you with a pile of crap....
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Everything happens for a reason. Even things that we see as bad, are challenges that help us to be stronger, better people. You are bound to meet other people along the way that can help you and that you can help. Who knows, maybe after this experience you'll become and advocate for cancer research or start a support group for people going through this alone.
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Try not to worry about the EKG. It's not that bad. It's probably more for your safety than anything else. Be glad they are being cautious, if there is a problem it's better to know ahead of time then find it out when you're in surgery out cold! And YOu're not alone - We are all pulling for you! Huggs and prayers!
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And do try to reframe your thoughts, for your peace of mind. They're cycling into a "catastrophe" frame without need. If you have a Xanax to take, now is probably a good time for it.
I have a crazy idea ( and don't anyone get me booted off is this is against the rules of this board... too long to read them all) can you set up a p.o. box or give us your local church address so we can send you poems, teddy bears, angels and cherubs .... so you feel loved and cared for by us... the stbx community.
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