A friend of mine is already pushing me to go out and date some. It hasn't been long...I feel that I'm ready to go out and have fun, but I don't know if I'm ready for a date or not. She gave a friend of her boyfriend's my number and email addy and we've been talking all day between the computer and the phone and he seems really great. He knows the situation and he says that he isn't going to push me into anything that he wants me to come to him when/if I'm ever ready to go out on a date with him. I wish she had not done this. Even though he knows and says he understands because even though he's never been married he just came out of a 5yr. relationship. A part of me says you are ready and another says no. I'm keeping it platonic and just phone calls and IMs, emails the like...but he's so much like me...I told my stbx tonight that I couldn't try to work things out with him. I couldn't do it anymore. I still haven't out right said, I want a divorce...but he knows it's coming. What do I do? I can't just cut off all contact with this guy but the more I talk to him the more I like him...ugh I hate this!
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