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So my husband got really drunk tonight and told me that when we had to put our dog down it broke him. He told me he can't get over it that it was the hardest thing he had to deal with in his life. So then he tells me he is going out tomorrow night with the bar skank and he enjoys hanging out with her. He said he goes to her for comfort and help through this process. He tells me she went psycho on him over the weekend. Here I was crying to him tonight about the way he is making me feel. And I poured my heart out and this is what I got in return. A SLAP IN THE FACE! I don't deserve this. So here I am upset and don't know why. How can a hu,an being hurt another human being this way?
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I am sorry for what you are going through. I had similar conversations with my STBX early on. I agree it sounds like he is wrapped up in himself right now and only time will bring him out of that. I found it amazing with my STBX that after almost 20 years together she was able to act so cold when I tried pouring out my feelings.
And if putting a dog to sleep is the hardest thing he has ever had to do, I would say he has a lot of growing up to do.
Seriously, be glad he's leaving. It will give you an opportunity to heal.
I hope that you are being careful..in the event that he is sleeping with this woman.
We can't control how other people treat us. You do have, however, complete control over how you respond. You don't have to put up with this.