Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
When an individual has a need to draw attention to them and not help but annoy others then this discussion room is not being used the way it is intended to be used. If we look at the past post of what inspires, what calls for help and what needs support and we look at other post that just provoke, calls out for attention for an individual and causes unrest then we need to decide as a group what is best. When individuals abuse this site for what it is, then I feel they are not adding to it but taking away from it. Since we see so many post and try to help each other out I would like to help by asking a certain individual to stop annoying but start helping. Your need to cause people to get upset is not needed here. Your need to draw attention to yourself for your own satisfaction is not needed or wanted.
I do not like seeing other members get upset for your lack of understanding. I for one do not want to chase people away but if you are not helping and are just causing waves then I think we as a group should ask you to leave. I for one do not see any value in what you are doing and if you respond to this post without any value then you back up everything that I mentioned and if you do add value then its about time.
There I said it. If any of you can think of an individual that is causing this please respond by yes.
I do not like seeing other members get upset for your lack of understanding. I for one do not want to chase people away but if you are not helping and are just causing waves then I think we as a group should ask you to leave. I for one do not see any value in what you are doing and if you respond to this post without any value then you back up everything that I mentioned and if you do add value then its about time.
There I said it. If any of you can think of an individual that is causing this please respond by yes.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
We also need to stop "feeding" the individual by responding to the individuals threads and verbal attacks.
If the individual stops getting the attention that it is seeking, then perhaps the individual will go away.
Individual may choose to go... skipping, singing, dancing.. whatever the individual enjoys doing.. just hopefully elsewhere!!
However, ignoring this person has not worked in the past.
Some people get the hint with subtlty, while others require more effort and convincing.
Are you a Monitor keepthehope ?
or just someone on a soapbox ?
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If we confront you (which we should have done a while ago), who knows, maybe you'll finally leave.
You have made yourself a pariah, BB. No one else helped you with that.
And not for the good either.