Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Some of us are approaching our "D" days. The day where we have to appear in court and a judge we've never met decides our fate and that of our stbx. Such an impersonal yet public end to the most intimate relationship of your life.
So, I was just thinking maybe we could spice things up a bit. Ladies and gents too, many of you have lost tons of weight if not physically...then mentally. Just casually slide up to that stbx and whisper...whisper in his ear "I'm not wearing any panties!" (men substitute boxers/briefs) Then casually return to your place next to your attorney and watch the show. Feel free to feel a warm spot in your heart for anyone BUT your stbx or the court clerk, or the bailiff or the opposing counsel...........you earned it: stbx deserves it! Go for it!
So, I was just thinking maybe we could spice things up a bit. Ladies and gents too, many of you have lost tons of weight if not physically...then mentally. Just casually slide up to that stbx and whisper...whisper in his ear "I'm not wearing any panties!" (men substitute boxers/briefs) Then casually return to your place next to your attorney and watch the show. Feel free to feel a warm spot in your heart for anyone BUT your stbx or the court clerk, or the bailiff or the opposing counsel...........you earned it: stbx deserves it! Go for it!
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
For all who approach "D" day, I salute you! In fact, I raise a flag.... hmmmm shall it be red panties....blue lace panties....perhaps a thong......
Any suggestions for the official flag of the ALMOST FREE and DEFINITELY BRAVE?
LET'S ALL GO TO COURT COMMANDO.
If we're gonna be emotionally naked we might as well have bare asses.
Now that I think about it, my stbx's attorney is HOT...stupid but definitely HOT! I shall have a very Merry Early Christmas on Dec 6th. Solongbye and Ms Tranquility, I'm SO jealous you get Christmas BEFORE Thanksgiving! Well that's just too early...like Christmas music in October! LOL!
I would have given a million bucks to whisper one word, one sentence, or even get one glance from him toward me. I got none of that. That $^%( coward!
So, I guess if you're that lucky enough to get close to you're STBX's ear, I would have said "I'm not wearing any panties, and after I secure a fair and reasonable settlement from you during this hearing, I am going straight to my ... younger lover ... so he can take advantage of BOTH, my wearing no panties, AND the celebration of being free from you. Oh yeah, and if I feel like it, I might spoil him with some of your $$$$.
You may feel free to go Commando without the annoucement and just enjoy any little pleasurable image that comes your way!