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deleted_user
...he already has a profile on Plenty Of Fish.


I can't believe this is happening.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry to hear it Christy. I'm hurting too... My boyfriend of almost 3 years and I were on and off for the past 6 months, and though he did ask me for time to be alone and work on his own life, I found out that he's already dating and she slept over his house Friday night.

Sorry you're hurting... I do understand.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wow with that it sounds like he has felt this way for some time.
CarlaBent
CarlaBent
Yes, it often seems like the one who does the breaking up is already at the stage where they're ready to start a new relationships. Which is just another stab in the heart for the one left behind, usually.
I'm sorry that he was so quick to move on, Christye. I was kind of hoping that he would be calling you back.
Try not to torture yourself too much, tracking him online. If it just makes you feel worse, anyway.
I'm so sorry. (((((Hugs)))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Plenty of fish is where I met him. Go figure.

GSCH, He's sorta done the same thing months ago when we fought. He went to the site and was browsing the profiles.

When we fight, he gets in this "leave.... i'm done" mood. Then he acts single for a few hours and back to the relationship. He gives up too easy.

THANK GOD I DIDN'T MARRY HIM!
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