Wow that's a lot of alone people.

hmmmm now ya got me thinking!

wow, and I don't have one close girlfriend to share a cup of coffee with? I moved to a small town... (yes there are small towns in California) he he At least I have tons of "friends" here!

I hear ya. Hope it gets better for you Ken.

Right there with you Ken.

You know how many hairs are on your head?
Do you know how many grains of sand there are in all the beaches in the world?
Do you know how many cars are manufactured every year?
Do you know how many stars are in our galaxy alone?
Do you know how many stars (approximately) are in the universe?

The answer is...these are all Geek checks. No one should actually know this inofrmation off the top of their head.

But they're all really big numbers.

Six-billion people is a LOT of people. It might be easy to feel lost in that mass of humanity, but think of it this way;

There's BILL-yuns (thanks Carl!) of people on this earth, but you are the only one like you. You are unique. No one else thinks exactly like you, talks exactly like you, sees things exactly like you do.

All of those things are part of what make you who YOU are. So before you run around feeling lonely, think of it this way;

if it was easy to find someone worthwhile, it wouldn't be much fun, now would it?

Things that are worthwhile are never easy to come by, they take work.

...and you'll find that person when you're least expecting it.

Yeah I know how you feel. But than again I have learned that with site I am not alone as I feel. Their is a whole lot of ppl going thru what I am going thru. Either easier, the same, or much worst and we r here for each other. So when you feel alone hit this site and talk to us and we will try to make you feel like you r not so alone here. Find me if you need to talk.

HG i think your last statment made a paradox. Im least expecting it right now, but now that you said it I expect it. Way to screw me over. JK ;}
I know what your saying. ty for the reply.

you're never really truly alone. being single is not alone. not having that someone you want to love you, that doesn't, does not make you alone. you're just single. there's many people who care and love you and thus making you not alone. I used to feel like that, until i realized how much better off my life is now that I am "alone", err, rather single...

Just missing that connection the STBX and I once had, I mean I had been in love befor her and had afew LTR's but there was soemthing extra we had, it was why I maried her.

i definately know how you feel..youre not alone tho..you have us!!

Thank god for that, dont know where I would be withought this community.

Probably curled up in the corner somewhere.

You got that right. I am so glad I found you guys!
AND that I bought this laptop before he left me... =)

begs the question:what the hell would we do If we didnt have computers?

I'd be standing outside the circle K - looking to make friends I guess? lol