Although my stbx is a big fat lying cheater who left me and the babies and hauled his ass off to Vegas to shack up with an old girlfriend, he says his main reason for leaving was because I wouldn't support his going to college. In this sense he means rah rah cheerleader support, not money. Anyhoo, I know he tried to go to school twice in his previous marriage and dropped out. He already tried twice while he was with me and dropped out. In fact, he was due to try again this fall (and I told him that I was on board with this) but missed some deadlines on financial aid paperwork and blames me for that (totally not my fault). So now he's supposedly going to community college there in Vegas (if I mail him our tax papers, so of course if he doesn't go, it'll be my fault again). I do want him to go to college. He's had a huge chip on his shoulder for as long as I've known him that I've got a degree and he doesn't. It would be great if he could get a degree and then a better job because it would set a better example for the kids and his child support checks would be bigger (just being honest). So should I feel bad that I really want him to go to college because I want him to fail on his own and see that he only has himself to blame? Or am I kidding myself and he'll still blame me for one reason or another? Maybe he can blame the OW, that would be nice. I think either way it would be a bonus for me though--he can rub my face in it, but child support is better, or he can learn a lesson. Am I a bad person?
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