My oldest daughter(age 24) is caught in the middle of our divorce.She and her boyfriend and baby had to move in with stbx as her boyfriends familys' house is in foreclosure.I don't have enough room.She and her boyfriend are trying to save enough money to be on their own(he just got a job). My stbx has her run bank papers down here for me to sign.He constantly dumps crap about me on her.I told her she needs to speak up for herself and tell him to get a therapist and to deliver his own paper work himself.She is afraid that if she speaks up,he will kick she and her boyfriend and baby out(and he would).She looked so sad like she was going to cry any second.I told her that her dad loves her and wouldn't kick her out for that.I am so angry at him for doing this to her and it must have shown cuz she asked if I was mad at her.I hugged her and said I was angry at her dad for putting her in the middle ("holding her emotionally hostage" I'm not even sure if that is what this is but it sounds right)...I just know it isn't right.I can't even find the right words or advice for her.I hurt for her.I hurt for my other daughter who also lives with stbx.What should I do or say to them?
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